Why women love “air tight” sex & how to have it tonight

It was my first-ever orgy experience when someone shouted “Make her AIR TIGHT!” 

…And I had no idea what this meant. 

Until they SHOWED me what it meant… which was amazing and ended with some giggling and high fives.  

But here’s the thing … you don’t need an orgy or a threesome to make her air tight.

In fact, all you need is yourself, some toys, and some lube.

In this article, I’ll show you exactly what you need, what you don’t need, things to consider before trying this, and what to avoid.  I’ll also guide you, step by step, through the exact process that works best for most women — so she has the biggest, most intense orgasm … all over your dick. 

Let’s get started. But first… 

What does “Air Tight” mean?

“Air tightness” is a fancy term for giving your woman the most intense stimulation of her life… which is guaranteed to make her a moaning, wet, drippy pile of putty in your hands. 

“Airtight” means filling all her holes: the vagina, anus, and mouth. Having all three holes penetrated at the same time. 

So if you were hoping to spice things up … its time to break out your dildos and have a party. 

Why would someone want to experience air tightness? 

Short answer: it feels amazing. And its hot as hell. 

But if you were looking for slightly longer answers, here they are.

Some people think it’s super hot to see their partner “fully stuffed”. 

its sexy to see your partner fully penetrated

Your partner wants to see you receiving all of that pleasure and all of that stimulation, by all of those penises (or toys or cucumbers or whatever you decide to use). 

It’s an extremely pleasurable sensation

I mention in an earlier blog post about Double Penetration that stuffing the vagina and anus at the same time feels incredible. Why? Because when both the vagina and anus are penetrated, additional pressure is created on the perineal sponge. 

This tiny spot is located between the vagina and the anus, and it has TONS of nerve endings. 

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In fact, it feels really good when its stimulated, and can lead to orgasms of its own. 

You don’t need an army of penises to achieve this. 

If you’re reading this, slightly worried because you think its going to require three penises, think again. 

While it’s entirely possible to do this sexual position with three actual penises, you also can do it with one actual penis and two dildos. You can do it with one actual penis and two strap-ons. You can do it in a whole bunch of different varieties. You can do it with penises and fingers. You can actually make this happen with just two people, a receiver and a giver. I’ll leave the specific combinations up to you.

How to Make Your Partner “Air Tight” 

There’s a lot going on here — oral sex, butt sex, and vaginal sex… and it pleasure this intense tends to require some set up. I’ve got you covered. 

Here are the essentials you need to know before going Air Tight. 

Warm up and turn up the foreplay. 

couple during foreplay

The most important advice that I have about going airtight is to warm up. 

Warm up all of the orifices, warm up the vagina, warm up the anus, don’t just jump in there and go all in. Especially when it comes to anal sex, you really, really, really want to wait until the anus is ready to be penetrated. 

Foreplay should last all the way up until your partner is BEGGING for you.  

Use lube. 

The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. During Air Tight and all anal sexual adventures, I highly advise you use a high-quality, water-based lubricant. If you don’t use lube, it’ll be extremely difficult to penetrate the anus, and it’s not going to feel very good for the receiver. 

Have an aftercare plan. 

aftercare after sex is important

After you’ve achieved the mystical magical pleasure of Air Tightness, you’ll want to provide both you and your partner a chance to “come down” from this incredible — and sometimes overwhelming — experience. 

This is why it’s a good idea to have an aftercare plan. 

After all this stimulation, have a strategy in place. You don’t want to go straight from Air Tightness to the next overly stimulating sexual act. Instead, cuddle, have a warm towel handy, some snuggles… whatever your partner needs, be sure to provide it to them. 

Don’t just give them a whole bunch of cock and then not give them anything else, that’s not cool. You’ve got to have a plan for taking care of them afterward.

Start with the vagina. 

With the triple penetration of air tightness, there’s an order of operations involved. 

I always suggest: start with the leading lady: the vagina. Follow this up with anal, and finally, add oral last.

Why? 

The vagina is “the home” of all of the nerve endings associated with the easiest and most ubiquitous orgasms, which are clitoral. It’s also a lot easier to penetrate the vagina. You probably have a track record of experience, and the vagina helps you out by self-lubricating. 

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The anus, as I mentioned, requires a warm-up, it requires sort of an invitation, a welcoming, a permission. And lube. Lots and lots of lube. 

And then finally the mouth, because breathing is such an important activity, arguably the most important activity that any of us engage in, and if breathing is obstructed in any way, it can cause tension and tightness, it can cause the throat to close up, which actually will cause the anus to close up as well.

Eventually, you’ll find the order that works best for you. But for newbies, start with vagina, butt, and finally, mouth. 

Don’t feel like you have to maintain Air Tightness for long. 

Don’t feel like you have to keep going for any extended amount of time, sometimes it’s fun just to get into that position and then high five everyone involved, and then close it out and say goodbye.

After all, she’s about to enjoy LOADS (pun intended) of fun. She might be reeling afterwards.

Will you try Air Tight tonight? 

Now that you know exactly how to experiment with Air Tight, remember — it doesn’t require an army of men or for you to set aside three hours. All it requires is: one cock, a couple sex toys, some lube, and fun night in. 

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