What Women REALLY Think About Double Penetration

Double penetration is an INCREDIBLY common pornography search, which might have you thinking that DP is just about two penises going at the same girl at the same time.

Guys, double penetration is SO MUCH MORE than that.

In fact, double penetration might involve things you’re already doing in the bedroom. Double penetration can be a VERY enjoyable activity for both of you, even if your lady isn’t sure how she feels about anal sex.

DP can be a mind-blowingly pleasurable sexual act. Which is sad, because only 2.9% of men and 1.2% of women have tried it.

So let me be the first to say: when it comes to DP, don’t knock it until you try it! You both might be surprised at how INTENSELY pleasurable it is.

In fact, there’s this really hot, amazing, sexy thing that happens when all her orifices are being pleasured and feeling full and stuffed. That in and of itself is a HUGE reason to experiment with this.

You can bring her to heights of pleasure she didn’t know she could reach.

And you are going to give her the BEST sex she’s ever had through a double penetration orgasm.

But first, what precisely IS DP?

What is double penetration?

The website Kinkly says it best. Double penetration is when “two or more body parts or objects are inserted into the human body during foreplay or sexual intercourse. Double penetration often refers to having vaginal sex while inserting something, such as a dildo, anally or vice versa. However, it can include any combination of oral, vaginal, and anal penetration.”

For those of you who thought that double penetration means that there has to be one cock in her vagina and another penis in her butt – know you know that the definition is MUCH wider than that.

So if you don’t want another dude in the bedroom with you, it’s totally cool. Break out your sex toys and lube and let’s get started.

Double Penetration Feels Amazing For Women. It’s Science.

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Your wife has always been nervous to try taking anything up her butt. But one night, her curiosity gets the best of her, and she agrees to take a dildo up there while you pound her pussy. She is FLOORED. She feels AMAZING. She doesn’t want it to stop… until she reaches the most intense orgasm of her life!!

There’s a scientific reason why double penetration feels so good.

You can thank her perineal sponge.

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Double penetration feels so amazing for women because she has TONS of nerve endings in both her vagina and anus, but she ALSO has what is called the perineal sponge. (Also known as the PS-Spot.)

This spot is located between the vaginal canal and the anus, just under her perineum.

This is a very important little spot that packs BIG pleasure during anal penetration. It feels amazing when stimulated from either direction, but it feels INCREDIBLE when stimulated from both sides at the same time. It can even have an orgasm all its own.

Double penetration can put her in a pleasure trance.

The sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems meet at the anus. When it’s being stimulated, it can have a trance-like effect on a woman, causing her to have extremely satisfying orgasms.

This little spot where the two nervous systems meet is also a great way to get her relax enough to handle a lot of penetration. If she feels extra relaxed and open during double penetration, this is why.

Does Double Penetration Feel Good for Men, Too?

When a woman is being double-penetrated, it can make sex feel extra good for the man having sex with her. Double penetration can make a woman feel tighter, firmer, and – depending on the toy you use – can create mind-blowing sensations for you as well during sexual intercourse.

Play around with double penetration in different positions! Different positions cause different pressure points and sensations, so it’s worth it to experiment.

One of my favorite things to do it to use a heavy metal butt plug. The heaviness of the butt plug feels amazing in any position because it’s pressing down on that perineal sponge, and HE gets to feel amazing too because he feels that heavy pressure on his erection!

The Many Different Ways to Double Penetrate     

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One of the most fun aspects of double penetration is that there are SO MANY different ways to do it! Experiment, play around, and find the set up that works best for you.

  • Your penis in her butt, with a dildo in her vagina
  • Your penis in her vagina, with a dildo in her butt
  • A butt plug in her butt with you in her vagina
  • Two toys: one dildo and one butt plug
  • Anal beads with a dildo
  • You wearing a strap on, with you in her vagina and butt at the same time
  • Her playing with a toy that has an extra arm

OR, double penetration can also mean two things inserted in her vagina or two things inserted in her butt at the same time. This is also a pro move.

So now that we know that the combinations are ENDLESS, how do you partake in some sweet DP action?

How to Make Double Penetration Happen In Your Sex Life

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Now that you know how incredible double penetration can feel for both of you, you want some of this action. But how do you make it happen?

Have a conversation with your partner.

Show her my YouTube video! Say “Hey babe, did you know that you have a perineal sponge? I would like to pleasure your perineal sponge using all of my tools by going into your backdoor AND front door. What do you say?”

Maybe your language will be different, but make sure you have a conversation about it beforehand.

Start with lots and lots of foreplay.

Can I get an AMEN?!

If she is going to be able to handle additional things coming into her body, she needs to be REALLY relaxed if she’s going to be able to handle a bunch of stuff going in there. 

Lube up!

Anytime you do butt stuff, you need lube.

The butt doesn’t self-lubricate the way the vagina does. There are three types of lube: silicon, oil, and water-based lube. If you’re using condoms, you can’t use oil-based. If you’re using silicone toys, you can’t use silicone-based lube.

Water is almost always the safest lube to go with. So if you’re not sure which one to go with, always choose water-based.

Use condoms!

Condoms are great when you’re doing butt stuff. Butt stuff requires some clean up (even though the anus is actually very clean. There’s usually not a lot of stored fecal matter in that area.)

However, if you’re going to be switching back and forth from her butt to her mouth to her vagina, you need to be using a condom.

Throw a condom on, and suddenly butt stuff is a no-mess situation.  

Select the proper toys.

Anything that goes up the butt needs to have a base. The butt is not a dead-end like the vagina. It’s a never-ending highway. Things could lead to the emergency room if you end up losing something up her butt.

Ask any ER doctor you meet what the craziest thing they’ve pulled out of someone’s butt. They ALL have a story.

Start small.

Butt stuff requires a learning curve. You can’t just go “off to the races”. Start with a finger, a small butt plug, and then you can go all the way up to a dildo, a larger butt plug, or a penis!

What if you bring another man into the bedroom for double penetration?

If you’re bringing another man into the bedroom for a threesome, everything I said about having a conversation applies.

Have consent conversations.

Communicate beforehand, set boundaries, and understand where everyone’s consent begins and ends.

Make sure everyone is all in and ready to have an amazing time.

But once you all get into the bedroom, you might realize that you’re not sure where to put everyone’s… legs.

Legs everywhere. You might not know where to put all your legs!

I highly suggest that one man lay flat on his back with his knees bent over the edge of the bed. Meanwhile, the woman straddles him as he enters her vagina. The other man enters her anus from behind.

You’d be surprised how easy it is to make this happen if everyone’s aroused by it.

Does Having Double Penetration with a Woman and Another Man Make You Gay?

Having sex with a woman who is ALSO having sex with another man is NOT gay.

This does not make you any less of a heterosexual man.

I actually think group sex and threesomes are incredibly hot – two men working together for one woman’s pleasure and sexual expansion and JOY and ORGASM! Hot hot is that? That’s super sexy to me. And it doesn’t have to be sexy to you. And that’s okay.

There are plenty of other ways to make her pleasure happen using toys. But if you want to experiment with other people, go for it! It can be incredibly fun.

You may never ever see a woman so pleased and so satisfied ever again! There is NO pleasure like a woman receiving all that delicious manly attention.

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