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The Real Reason You’re Not Having Sex After Kids

You vowed it would never happen to you and yet here you are… the baby was born and intimacy with your partner has shriveled up and died. After the first six weeks after childbirth, you figured that a lack of intercourse was normal … that you’d start having sex again...

How to Be Good at Sex Your First Time (How to Lose Your Virginity)

So you’re thinking about having sex for the very first time.  And, maybe you’re not sure how to go about this. And certain things you’ve heard are freaking you out... Like, you’ve heard that sex for the first time is supposed to be incredibly painful, that there...

5-step guide: How to get your partner to love your kinky idea

5-step guide: How to get your partner to love your kinky idea

Many people end up in boring, routine, and uninspired sex lives because they’re unwilling to speak up and ask for all the new, kinky things they want to try between the sheets.  Even as a sex and relationship coach, I’ve struggled in the past to use my words --...

Porn has become mainstream: pros and cons

Porn has become mainstream: pros and cons

Porn used to be hard to come by.  And if you DID look at porn, you hid it, didn't talk about it, never shared it with anyone else, not your parents, not your friends, not your boys, not anyone. But this has changed.  With the rise of internet porn, the...

Could This Be You? Sexual Orientations You Didn’t Know Existed

Could This Be You? Sexual Orientations You Didn’t Know Existed

You’re probably familiar with the array of sexual orientations that comprise LGBTQ+.  But even if you’re IN the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, you still might not know about the other, lesser-known sexual orientations out there.  We like to think of sexual orientation...

Why women love “air tight” sex & how to have it tonight

Why women love “air tight” sex & how to have it tonight

It was my first-ever orgy experience when someone shouted "Make her AIR TIGHT!"  ...And I had no idea what this meant.  Until they SHOWED me what it meant... which was amazing and ended with some giggling and high fives.   But here’s the thing …...

This is how long she wants you to last in bed.

This is how long she wants you to last in bed.

It seems like all men have the same goal between the sheets:  Last longer than last time.  Move the goal post. Aim higher. Keep that joystick so hard that "the party don't stop 'till 8 in the mornin'!"  But since when did sex because a race against the...

How to use your “Energy Cock” for powerful sex

How to use your “Energy Cock” for powerful sex

When I first heard about "Energy Cock", my first reaction was, “say what?”  But once I learned what it was... I knew it was going to make foreplay buzz with anticipation, boost my husband's confidence, and change our sex life forever.  In fact, we've been...

The 5 Most Common Mistakes Men Make When Women Pull Away

The 5 Most Common Mistakes Men Make When Women Pull Away

We have all had the experience of connecting with someone, falling in love, and feeling like maybe they're “the one”.  Maybe you've been imagining a future together. Maybe you got her an engraved bracelet for Christmas.  But suddenly, she pulls away. ...

What do women think about after sex? (What men need to know.)

What do women think about after sex? (What men need to know.)

What you do immediately after sex tells me a lot about who you are as a lover.  Thing is, a lot of people don’t even think about those moments right after sex, which is a shame.  Because what you do right after sex is more important than any technique you...

How Do Women Masturbate? (Female Self-Pleasure How-To)

How Do Women Masturbate? (Female Self-Pleasure How-To)

Women, about 90% of us masturbate.  But I recently came across a study that said around 60% of us wonder if we're doing it “right”. Which means, many of us are secretly wondering, “Am I normal?”  Since most women don’t talk to ANYONE about their own...

What she REALLY means when she says she wants “connection”

What she REALLY means when she says she wants “connection”

Today, we decode the language of women.  What do they mean when they say they want to “feel connected?”  As a sexuality and relationship coach, one of the many pleasures of my job is helping lovers cross the communication divide.  In this case, I’m...

How often should you masturbate?

How often should you masturbate?

When I was a young kid, I noticed that it felt good to touch myself “down there.” I even noticed that the longer I stimulated myself, the more likely I was to reach a “release” at the end, where I didn’t feel like doing it anymore.  Somehow, I knew that this was...

How Stress Affects Sex Drive (Low Libido and Low Desire)

How Stress Affects Sex Drive (Low Libido and Low Desire)

Sometimes life throws things at you: a pandemic, an election, mercury in retrograde, a black cat walking across a broken mirror on a full moon...Stress, like death and taxes, is a sure thing.But when the straws of stress put strain on the camel's back, how does your...

How to Bewitch Your Partner with Halloween Role Play

How to Bewitch Your Partner with Halloween Role Play

My friends, the sexiest holiday is upon us. Flames flicker, skirts get shorter, the good girl next door transforms into a daring sorceress … It's the night we unearth the scary, haunted parts of ourselves we thought were buried... We can let our skeletons out of the...

How to Eat Pussy: 7 Tips for Giving Her an Oral Sex Orgasm

How to Eat Pussy: 7 Tips for Giving Her an Oral Sex Orgasm

Want to have her moaning in pleasure?  Of course you do! Maybe you worry that you’re a slobbery, uncomfortable, tonguey mess when you go down on her. That’s why, today, we’re talking about the 7 most mind-blowing pussy eating tips for giving her intense...

How to Talk Dirty (Dirty Talk Formula)

How to Talk Dirty (Dirty Talk Formula)

Dirty talk is intimidating. How do you go from "I would like to touch your breasts with my face" to being a swashbuckling dirty talk MASTER? Too many of my clients have something lame they said to their woman that haunts their dreams. One single sentence can destroy...

How Does She Want You to Thrust During Sex? (Depth, Speed & Rhythm)

How Does She Want You to Thrust During Sex? (Depth, Speed & Rhythm)

You don't have to slay dragons with your cock to be the lover of her dreams. In a word: stop thrusting like a 1970's porno. Yes, you see them hammering away in porn like a construction site -- but that’s not what the ladies like, okay?  Trust me on this one --...

Sleep With Other People? Consensual Non-Monogamy, Explained

Sleep With Other People? Consensual Non-Monogamy, Explained

I need to come out of the closet... Very few people know this about me, but I think it's important that you do. I am not monogamous. Yes, I have a partner, and yes, I am married. But we practice something that falls under the umbrella of "consensual non-monogamy"....

20 Bedroom Red Flags (Sexual Red Flags to Watch Out For)

20 Bedroom Red Flags (Sexual Red Flags to Watch Out For)

We've all heard of those relationship red flags: the indication that someone might not a good fit for you and you probably should run for the hills. "She keeps showing up unannounced when you're out with your guy friends to check on you and calling it a "coincidence?"...

How to Survive a Sexless Marriage (Without Cheating)

How to Survive a Sexless Marriage (Without Cheating)

This is hard for me to write about. Because believe or not, I used to be in a sexless marriage. It was hard. Coping with a sexless marriage can feel really awful at first -- and it can happen to anyone. If you find yourself stuck in a sexless marriage with a lack of...

The Best Clit Vibrators To Unlock More Female Orgasms

The Best Clit Vibrators To Unlock More Female Orgasms

Imagine being able to bring your woman to orgasm every time. Imagine her pulling you into the bedroom to get it on because she KNOWS that it’s only a matter of time until you’re able to make her entire body buck and shiver, and bring her to an intense, delicious...

How a Woman Can Help Her Man Last Longer in Bed

How a Woman Can Help Her Man Last Longer in Bed

This one's for the ladies who need ample amounts of foreplay and stimulation in order to be enjoy vaginal penetration. Because let's face it -- when your man busts off at the slightest whiff of a sexual encounter, it can be hard to get in all the sexual activity you...

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