There are few things in life that are so simple that when we stumble upon them we have to laugh and say, “Why didn’t I think of that?”
This tip to boost sexual performance is THAT simple.
This tip is so simple that you might think I’m joking at first. You might underestimate how effective it is. But I promise, once you read this blog post, watch the video, and then try it yourself, you’ll get it. I PROMISE you, this tip to gain ejaculatory control works.
Table of Contents
Why Is This Tip to Delay Ejaculation So Important?
- You don’t need special products, premature ejaculation pills, or advanced techniques to last longer in bed. (No numbing cream, special condoms, or any of that BS to have great sex.)
- This simple technique will work every time to build anticipation for lovemaking.
- This tip is great if you want to make her orgasm through penetrative sex
Do This ONE Thing Leading up to sexual activity…
OK HERE IT IS! My awesome, simple, instantly implementable technique for lasting longer in bed is… du-duh-duh-daaaa… Keep your pants on! No, not the WHOLE time silly. Just in the initial phases of sexual arousal. During foreplay, keep those pants ON! Why, you ask?
This Does a Few Things:
1) It buys you more time before you climax since you’re not being stimulated
2) It allows you to focus all your attention on her sexual satisfaction, thus decreasing performance anxiety and piquing her sexual desire!
3) It teases her and builds anticipation for sexual intercourse.
Keeping your pants on gives you more time to work on HER, to focus on her arousal before you allow yourself any pleasurable sensation. This takes your mind OFF what’s happening in your pants, which is exactly what most men need to stop premature ejaculation and stave off that finish line.
Why You’re an Early Ejaculator (And Preventing Her from Orgasm)
Here are the main reasons why men experience rapid ejaculation, and why their partners deal with the ugly side effect: never getting the chance to orgasm.
You’re so in your head about sexual dysfunction that you forget foreplay.
Many men are so focused on how aroused they are, worried about how long they’re going to last, or concerned about what she’s going to think that they forgot foreplay, teasing, and delivering an amazing sexual experience! And teasing and anticipation are crucial for women’s arousal.
Enjoy the sexual encounter for what it. is. Take a deep breath. which leads us to. our next point…
You go too fast, too soon.
Slow your tempo.
I can’t tell you the number of times I hear about men whipping out their erection and starting to touch their partners with it. Admit it, you’ve done it. You’ve totally just smacked your erect penis against her butt, or run the head of your penis on her thighs before intercourse.
I don’t know where all men got this idea, but it’s not the best way to last longer and build arousal. It’s not the best way to ramp into a steamy sex session.
Most men don’t begin by focusing 100% on arousing their lover and boosting intimacy. They assume because they’re already aroused, she must be too! They miss this incredible opportunity to use their hands or mouths to excite their lovers, to go slow and build her anticipation until she’s begging you to get inside her.
Instead they just start rubbing themselves against her. She feels obligated to give your penis her attention, and then you reach your point of no return and ask “how did I ejaculate too soon again?!”
Meanwhile she’s finally starting to get aroused and suddenly sex is over. this is why better control is essential for her orgasm.
Build a Better Sex Life by Being an Amazing Lover.
If you’re like most men, you want to make your partner orgasm through vaginal sex. In order to achieve this, you’ve got to invest the time to arouse, excite, and tease her before your thrust even comes into play!
Trust me, the most effective way to have good sex and turn on your woman is to. be a patient, attentive guy who is willing to take things slow and make her pleasure a priority.
What better way to demonstrate that then by keeping your pants on during foreplay? Give her enough time to orgasm by having longer sex.
That’s just being a good sexual partner … by holding off your own sexual excitement and building sexual stamina for her sexual pleasure.
Please Your Woman by Spending More Time in Foreplay.
Keeping your pants on will also prevent her from turning the attention back on you. Women sometimes feel uncomfortable being the recipient of sexual stimulation and sexual intimacy.
It’s easier for some women to focus on you and your shaft, getting you off and being done with sex by having their man ejaculate.
Especially women who you’re sleeping with for the first time or women who have a hard time reaching orgasm. Ironically, these are the women who need more time in foreplay. Once they recognize that sex isn’t JUST about the man, sex suddenly becomes amazing for them, too. Imagine being the man to show her that! ;)
Don’t just tell her you want to please her, SHOW her by focusing your attention on her, and denying either one of you contact with your erection until she’s completely and totally ready for sex. Only then should you even consider taking your pants off. Don’t just take my word for it. Try it out the next time you have sex and see what’s possible!
Come When You Want.
As one of the leading sexologists and sex coaches in the world, I’ve worked with thousands of men to help them reignite stale relationships, boost sexual confidence, and end premature ejaculation for good. After seeing what works best for my clients, I’ve developed a 3-step process, “Release, Reclaim, and Reconnect”, or “The R3 System” for short.
My private clients RAVE about this method, and tell me that it has changed how they look at premature ejaculation forever.
So if you’re looking for a system that can help you:
- end premature ejaculation for good
- have loads of energy and endurance
- boost your stamina
- experience far less worry and stress
- and have incredible sexual relationships…
In 90 days or less…. Then be sure to check out the Come When You Want Masterclass.
Make Your Sex Life Way Better. Get Personalized Advice.
If you liked this tip and want more free advice from my years of experience as a sex and relationship coach, check out my YouTube channel and subscribe! If you need more personalized, in-depth advice, work with me directly to make your sex life better than ever. Get a free consultation by clicking this link and filling out the form. It’s time to create an amazing sex life for you and your sexual partner.
