Does Your Partner Believe These Myths About Anal Sex?

Today, let’s talk about anal sex, or, most commonly known as “butt stuff.” BUTT STUFF!! Butt stuff, anal sex, butt sex, whatever you want to call it, has become more popular in the past 20 to 30 years. One theory I have is that millennials are really into butts. They love big butts, there’s butts all over Instagram – butts …

The Real Reason You Can’t Get an Erection (And What to Do About It)

A lot of men come to me who are convinced they have erectile dysfunction (ED). They’ve gone to their doctors and gotten prescriptions for Viagra, Trimix, and Cialis. They think their physical erection system is broken. But I’m not so sure. These men need some kind of ED treatment, sure. But their problem might not be physical in nature. It …

No Pleasure & Faking Orgasms: Performance Anxiety in Women

Guess what, gentlemen! You are not the only ones who suffer from performance anxiety. When it comes to anxiety and sex, few people escape. All of us – male, female, and people who identify as neither and both – can fall victim to performance anxiety. For men, performance anxiety often manifests as premature ejaculation. When men experience anxiety around sex, …

How Often Should You Masturbate?

I’ve worked with clients who feel guilt over masturbating. They ask me, “Do I masturbate too much?” Believe it or not, masturbation can help you have a better sex life. Just like Goldilocks, there is a perfect amount of masturbation for you, and today you and I are going to figure it out. Here’s the low-down. A Natural Thing that …

The Oral Report: Karen Yates, Tantric Sex, Super Tasty

  Caitlin:                    Hey, Caitlin. Caitlin:                    Hi, Caitlin. Caitlin:                    How’s it going? Caitlin:                    Good. How are you? Caitlin:                    I am excellent. I am so excited today. Caitlin:                    Me too, because… Caitlin:                    Because we have with us a very special guest. Karen Yates, a tantra and somatic sex educator, and producer of Super Tasty cabaret talk show about sex. Caitlin:                    Wonderful. Welcome, …

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How to Make a Woman Squirt

There are a lot of myths around squirting. Some women believe they don’t have the ability to squirt because it’s never happened to them before. Some people aren’t sure what the fluid is that squirts. Is it pee? Something else? In this blog post, we dive into the wonderful world of squirting: what it is, why you want it, and …

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Does Penis Size Matter?

It’s an age-old question that you may have been wondering since puberty: what if you have a smaller-than-average penis? Do women care? In my years of coaching, I’ve noticed that when men ask if penis size matters, what they’re REALLY asking is: How do women respond to me and my particular penis? How can I be a great lover? How …