How to Make Her Squirt (Be Legendary in Bed)

Sup, Internet! Today we’re going to talk about your favorite subject: squirting. That’s right: squirting is not just something you can do with guns. It’s been a few years since Trip and I got together to film that famous squirting video, so I thought I’d issue a refresh on the topic of female ejaculation, aka squirting. Why Make a Woman …

Discrete, Feel-Good Sex Toys For Men

So get this: sex toy seller and manufacturer Adam & Eve contacted me and said “Hey Caitlin we want to sponsor a video” and I said “That’s awesome, will you please send me some male sex toys? I recommend them all the time but I have never done a video or blog about them!” They said, “hell yeah” and then …

Why Women Cheat (And How to Prevent It)

One of the most important reasons to become a great lover is to keep your lover satisfied so they don’t go looking for satisfaction somewhere else. I’m Caitlin V, the creator of the Come When You Want Masterclass. One of the things I constantly hear men saying in my Masterclass is “How do I prevent her from cheating?” “How do …

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

I was out to dinner with a couple of friends the other night when a friend stopped me and said, “You’re a woman…and yet you work with men to cure premature ejaculation. But you yourself have never ejaculated! Why does anyone trust you?” To which I said “That’s a valid point!” Why SHOULD you trust me? After all, I don’t …

How Porn is Linked to Sexual Dysfunction (& How to Quit)

You wanna quit. It’s getting in the way of your happiness, your healthy relationships, and even your motivation to go out and get laid. What am I talking about? Porn! Quitting porn is something I suggest for ALL the men in my Come When You Want Masterclass AND for all my 1:1 private clients. If you’re trying to last longer …

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Ask a Woman If She Wants to Have Sex

Are You Afraid of Initiating Sex?

You and I have been lied to. There’s one lie in particular that’s wreaking havoc on your sex life, especially if you’re a man who is anxious about his performance in bed. Whether you feel occasional anxiety around wanting to please her and make her feel good, or debilitating anxiety that makes you want to quit sex forever, this lie …

What Men Need to Know About Birth Control

One of the major causes of premature ejaculation is performance anxiety. Performance anxiety: the fear that many men experience around sex with their partner. But what causes performance anxiety? There are a whole bunch, but there’s one that most men don’t immediately think about, but it still always lurking in the back of their minds. It’s that troll on your …

How to Smash the Script for a More Empowering Sex Life

Improve Your Sex Life by Doing This One Thing

A while back, I was in a tent with my partner in the middle of the desert and I was DYING to get laid. We’d been driving across country, staying in hotels with friends, and FINALLY our opportunity arrived. We set up the tent, and inflated the air mattress, and I was rearing to go. So we start having sex… …