The Intense Pleasure of the Rim Job: How to Be First Class at Lickin’ Ass

Rimming, Tossing Salad, Eating Ass… Analingus… The pleasuring of the anus with your mouth. This is a subject that is sure to elicit some STRONG responses, guys. I’m sure that as I soon as I dropped the term “eating ass”, you had some kind of emotional response. You might be like “YUSSS!! Analingus is my favorite! I love getting ALL …

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You Should Be Having Period Sex. Here’s How to Make it Great.

In her excellent book Pleasure Activism, Adrienne Maree Brown outlines four different approaches to period sex: Team Bloody Awesome The people who get it, they know how to treat you during your period and they know how to make love to you while you’re on it. Team Bloody Fetish Lovingly referred to as “Vampires”, these are the people who LOVE …

How To Make A Woman Think About You Non-Stop

Today I am FIRED UP! I saw a video published by a dating coach for men. This guy was giving advice to men about how to make women think about you NON. STOP.  This video did pretty well for this coach’s channel, and it got me thinking. “This must be a subject that men want to know about!” so I …

7 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life (& A Word of Caution)

The spiciest thing I’ve ever done in my long-term relationship? It was probably that one time we made a “home video” (wink wink) that involved props from around the house and garden.  Tell me THAT’S not spicy.  (Actually, it wasn’t spicy at all… we were using very bland vegetables like cucumbers and carrots. Literally nothing spicy. And at the same …

How to Make Her Squirt (Be Legendary in Bed)

Sup, Internet! Today we’re going to talk about your favorite subject: squirting. That’s right: squirting is not just something you can do with guns. It’s been a few years since Trip and I got together to film that famous squirting video, so I thought I’d issue a refresh on the topic of female ejaculation, aka squirting. Why Make a Woman …

Discrete, Feel-Good Sex Toys For Men

So get this: sex toy seller and manufacturer Adam & Eve contacted me and said “Hey Caitlin we want to sponsor a video” and I said “That’s awesome, will you please send me some male sex toys? I recommend them all the time but I have never done a video or blog about them!” They said, “hell yeah” and then …

Why Women Cheat (And How to Prevent It)

One of the most important reasons to become a great lover is to keep your lover satisfied so they don’t go looking for satisfaction somewhere else. I’m Caitlin V, the creator of the Come When You Want Masterclass. One of the things I constantly hear men saying in my Masterclass is “How do I prevent her from cheating?” “How do …

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

Can a Woman Really Help Men with Premature Ejaculation?

I was out to dinner with a couple of friends the other night when a friend stopped me and said, “You’re a woman…and yet you work with men to cure premature ejaculation. But you yourself have never ejaculated! Why does anyone trust you?” To which I said “That’s a valid point!” Why SHOULD you trust me? After all, I don’t …

How Porn is Linked to Sexual Dysfunction (& How to Quit)

You wanna quit. It’s getting in the way of your happiness, your healthy relationships, and even your motivation to go out and get laid. What am I talking about? Porn! Quitting porn is something I suggest for ALL the men in my Come When You Want Masterclass AND for all my 1:1 private clients. If you’re trying to last longer …