5 Sexy Ways to Incorporate Food in the Bedroom

There’s a bazillion ways of putting food and sex together, and I’m going to teach you all the delicious ways. My husband likes doing that thing you see in the movies — where a woman is wearing a blindfold and her man sensually rubs a strawberry on her mouth before letting her bite it…. except my husband will do that …

The 10 Most Common Mistakes Men Make in Bed

The two WORST sexual experiences of my life had one very important thing in common, which was the inappropriate and poorly-timed use of biting. Don’t get me wrong – I love a good nibble. Some teeth on the skin can feel really good in the right context. In fact, I ENJOY being bit. But…. not out of the blue, man! …

How to Have More Sex In Your Long-Term Relationship

I knew the line “Not tonight honey” before I knew what sex even WAS. It’s no joke in our society: the idea that long-term relationships are devoid of sex. You’re probably familiar with our cultural story: there’s a couple. Husband and wife, married 20 years, they’ve got a couple kids, maybe those kids are young or they’re grown. But it’s …

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

According to one study, 47 percent of women cuddle their dogs more than they cuddle their partner. So if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why do the dogs get more love than me?” You, my friend, are not alone. I am sex and relationship coach Caitlin V and today we will answer the age-old question: Why DO the dogs get …

The Intense Pleasure of the Rim Job: How to Be First Class at Lickin’ Ass

Rimming, Tossing Salad, Eating Ass… Analingus… The pleasuring of the anus with your mouth. This is a subject that is sure to elicit some STRONG responses, guys. I’m sure that as I soon as I dropped the term “eating ass”, you had some kind of emotional response. You might be like “YUSSS!! Analingus is my favorite! I love getting ALL …

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You Should Be Having Period Sex. Here’s How to Make it Great.

In her excellent book Pleasure Activism, Adrienne Maree Brown outlines four different approaches to period sex: Team Bloody Awesome The people who get it, they know how to treat you during your period and they know how to make love to you while you’re on it. Team Bloody Fetish Lovingly referred to as “Vampires”, these are the people who LOVE …

How To Make A Woman Think About You Non-Stop

Today I am FIRED UP! I saw a video published by a dating coach for men. This guy was giving advice to men about how to make women think about you NON. STOP.  This video did pretty well for this coach’s channel, and it got me thinking. “This must be a subject that men want to know about!” so I …

7 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life (& A Word of Caution)

The spiciest thing I’ve ever done in my long-term relationship? It was probably that one time we made a “home video” (wink wink) that involved props from around the house and garden.  Tell me THAT’S not spicy.  (Actually, it wasn’t spicy at all… we were using very bland vegetables like cucumbers and carrots. Literally nothing spicy. And at the same …