involuntarily celibate

How to Stop Being Involuntarily Celibate

A friend recently asked me, “If you had one superpower, what would it be?” After thinking about it for a second, I said, “Snapping my fingers and removing sexual shame and fear so people can have uber-pleasurable sex lives!” My friend’s response? “Oh… so you would cure all the incels of the world!” I thought that was really interesting. What …

5 Sexy Ways to Incorporate Food in the Bedroom

There’s a bazillion ways of putting food and sex together, and I’m going to teach you all the delicious ways. My husband likes doing that thing you see in the movies — where a woman is wearing a blindfold and her man sensually rubs a strawberry on her mouth before letting her bite it…. except my husband will do that …

The 10 Most Common Mistakes Men Make in Bed

The two WORST sexual experiences of my life had one very important thing in common, which was the inappropriate and poorly-timed use of biting. Don’t get me wrong – I love a good nibble. Some teeth on the skin can feel really good in the right context. In fact, I ENJOY being bit. But…. not out of the blue, man! …

How to Have More Sex In Your Long-Term Relationship

I knew the line “Not tonight honey” before I knew what sex even WAS. It’s no joke in our society: the idea that long-term relationships are devoid of sex. You’re probably familiar with our cultural story: there’s a couple. Husband and wife, married 20 years, they’ve got a couple kids, maybe those kids are young or they’re grown. But it’s …

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

6 Reasons Dogs Get More Love Than You

According to one study, 47 percent of women cuddle their dogs more than they cuddle their partner. So if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why do the dogs get more love than me?” You, my friend, are not alone. I am sex and relationship coach Caitlin V and today we will answer the age-old question: Why DO the dogs get …