How to use your “Energy Cock” for powerful sex

When I first heard about “Energy Cock”, my first reaction was, “say what?” 

But once I learned what it was… I knew it was going to make foreplay buzz with anticipation, boost my husband’s confidence, and change our sex life forever

In fact, we’ve been perfecting the “energy cock” technique throughout the past year. 

He is getting so good at it. 

It’s been giving me mind-blowing, earth-shattering orgasms I’ve never experienced before. It adds sexual anticipation that I didn’t know could EXIST in two married people who floss together. 

The best part: anyone can do it immediately. You can have better sex tonight.

How do I know this to be true? 

Well, not only am I a sex coach and former sexual health researcher, I have been teaching this to the guys in my coaching program, High-Performance Male. 

I learned this technique from my mentor, and, OG Ninja of sex coaches, creator of the Erotic Blueprints, Jaiya, for coming up with this amazing technique. I am honored to share this life-changing technique with you. 

What the hell is an “energy cock”? 

“Energy cock” is a technique, but it’s also a way of being, or an attitude. 

This technique uses the power, like cock power, to make sex better, more exposive, more intense, and more connected. 

But before we dive into how to USE your energy cock, let’s talk about what the hell “energy” even is for a second, especially since this concept can feel foreign and a bit “woo-woo” at first. 

But I promise you — once I define these terms, I believe that even the most logical, rational, empirical scientists out there can agree this technique makes sex better. 

So, what do we mean by “energy”? 

In this case, we’re referring to “energy” as the energy we emit as humans — the energy that comes from our heart, our brain, our nervous system. Countless studies have shown that our energy and intention has real force in this world, and especially in our relationships. 

Try this experiment with me: rub your hands together, vigorously, for about a full minute, and then hover your hands over your face until you can feel the energy coming off of your hands. 

You are capable of generating, and creating, energy. 

We breathe energy and we put energy out. You know how sometimes without even looking at a person you can tell something is wrong? Maybe they’re heartbroken, or they’re sad, or they’re depressed, well that’s because their heart is emitting that energy. Their body is emitting that energy. 

It’s like big dick energy. It’s not actually swinging a big dick around, it’s the way you enter a room. It’s the energy you put out there. 

The cool thing about the Energy Cock is that it doesn’t have the physical limitation of your skin. Your energy field extends beyond you, so too can your Energy Cock. 

What I love about Energy Cock: it’s not limited by the laws of physics. It can be huge, massive, six feet. Anything you want!

How to wield your energy cock 

The most important thing to know about your energy cock: whether you’re having penetrative sex, or you’re just flirting with your wife over dinner, the person who you’re sending your energy cock to, is going to feel it, receive it, experience it. 

If you’re saying “Caitlin, this doesn’t sound very scientific to me,” I dare you, try it. Run a control on it, where you have sex WITH your energy cock, and sex without it, and notice the difference for yourself. 

You’re going to be delighted by the results. 

So without further ado, here are the exact steps to take to use your energy cock.

Throw out any hesitation about whether or not it’s real. 

If you’re too much in your head about whether or not it’s real you’re not going to be able to just express it, and that’s the single most important thing. Don’t be afraid to let go of “reality” and use your imagination for a second!  After all, a good sex life demands a level of creativity and fantasy. 

  1. Imagine a cock that extends from your body. 

It can be any size, shape, or color. It can be six foot long, pink with feathers. It can have a rainbow dragon scales sort of looking thing, but I want you to make it as magical, and as big, and bad-ass as possible. 

Think about it right now. Imagine it. Imagine that you’re sitting there, no matter where you are, you can be driving, you can be at your office, you can be watching YouTube in bed before you go to sleep. Imagine yourself with this like big, honkin’, energetic, boom, cock coming out from between your legs.

I want you to do this no matter who you are. Imagine it right now. Visualize it and connect with it. Know that you’ve already got that, and that it is big, bad, and powerful. 

Penetrate a consenting partner with it. 

Be present in your body, grounded, and taking deep, centered breaths. If you’re stuck in your head and anxious about how long you’re going to last, or about your erection, it’s going to have an impact on your ability to be present.

Because this is an energetic practice, if your energy is concerned, that “I’m not lasting long enough in bed”, or your worried about your performance, let go of those anxieties for a moment and only focus on penetrating your partner with your magical energy cock. 

(If you can’t seem to let go of this anxious energy, you absolutely have to check out my course, “Come When You Want’ so you can establish ejaculatory control and never deal with premature ejaculation again!) 

Now, you can penetrate a partner at any time — when your having intercourse, when you’re flirting in the kitchen — whenever. 

If you choose to penetrate your partner with your energy cock during sexual intercourse, the energy cock acts as an “extra” … you can imagine your cock goes all the way up to her heart, and that with each thrust, you’re going all the way up to her heart, to her throat, and even all the way out the top of her head. She’s BURSTING with pleasure because your energy cock is filling her all the way up to her head. 

Amazing. 

Go for it, test it out. The sky’s the limit. 

Use your energy cock at any time, not just during sex.

There are other times you can use your Energy Cock — during foreplay, or even when you’re just trying to send some like sexy signals of like, “Hey, I want you tonight, Babe,” to your wife while she’s making dinner, and you like come up behind her and start to like touch on her and then send her some like Energy Cock vibes. 

Or, see if maybe she’s washing the dishes and from across the room you send her some big, thick, Energy Cock thrusting, pounding, surging, Energy Cock vibes. Send it to her from across the room.

If you’re in a long distance relationship you can send this Energy Cock vibe to your partner. Maybe you’re having video sex, or phone sex, and you imagine that you’re penetrating her or him with your Energy Cock. (Again, ladies, this tip is not just for people who have physical cocks. I have an Energy Cock. It’s massive, and I like to whip it out sometimes during sex, again with consent, and use it with my partner.) It is super fun whether you’re sleeping with a man, or a woman, or someone who is non-binary. If they are into it use your Energy Cock to penetrate them. Again, I promise you will see some epic results.

I’d love for you to test it out, see what you think about it, and maybe even put like a little description of your Energy Cock in the comments, because I know you are creative, and you’re a great lover. That’s why you’re here, you’re interested in becoming amazing in bed, and that’s why you’re reading this. 

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