How to Eat Pussy: 7 Tips for Giving Her an Oral Sex Orgasm

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Want to have her moaning in pleasure? 

Of course you do!

Maybe you worry that you’re a slobbery, uncomfortable, tonguey mess when you go down on her.

That’s why, today, we’re talking about the 7 most mind-blowing pussy eating tips for giving her intense orgasms. 

Because I know for a fact — women love being eaten out. And stats show that few of them are getting their man’s head between their thighs. 

Here’s the reality. Women are twice as likely to go down on their guys. Only about half of those women are getting it in return. You see, she wants you to go down on her. She just might be too shy or uncomfortable to ask. 

But you can be that guy who fulfills her sexual fantasies. You’re not just about to give her any old cunnilingus. You’re about to learn how to eat a girl out and give her the best oral sex she’s ever had. 

No more excuses if things have gotten boring in the bedroom. You’ve got the power to change it.

 

Oral Sex: how to last longer when you have premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction

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If you cant keep an erection for very long, or if you bust off sooner than you would like, it doesn’t have to mean the end of sex. 

In fact, it shouldn’t. 

It takes women — on average — at LEAST twenty minutes to an hour to reach climax, so it’s a good idea to have other ideas up your sleeve… not just penetrative sex. 

So before you zip up your pants and walk away from the bedroom, don’t forget to make her come first.

After all, you still have your mouth. 

Things like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation aren’t the end of the game. They’re an opportunity to change direction. 

In fact, getting PE or ED might be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. It forces you to get a little freaky. 

Orgasm at the same time by going down on her first

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You can use cunnilingus to your advantage, good sir. 

Namely, after you spend some time on foreplay and get her aroused, you can spend a few minutes licking pussy. 

This buys you time. This brings her almost to the point of orgasm so by the time she’s BEGGING for you to enter her, you get her so ready to orgasm that you can both come at the same time. 

Sound good? 

The Importance of Taking Your Time During Sex 

When you take your time and make her feel like her body is important, she’ll love it. It’s not all about the orgasm. She wants to know that you care about giving her pleasure. When things aren’t happening, she’ll feel like you don’t care. 

And you don’t want me to tell you what happens when the connection is gone. Hey, but I’m going to tell you anyway. She’s going to find someone who will spend time with her and discover the right buttons to push. 

Then he’ll have her screaming with pleasure. And you’ll be looking for a new girlfriend. Let’s not have that happen.

So just to review, here are your options if things aren’t super hot in the bedroom.

  1. Leave her feeling overlooked, underappreciated, and sexually unfulfilled.
  2. Become a master at these pussy eating tips and have her begging for more.

Give her the best oral of her life

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So you’ve decided that you’re going to become a master at cunnilingus. Good choice. You’re not going to just go down on her. You’re going to give her the best oral sex she’s ever had.

You don’t want to just attack her clit like you’re eating a sloppy ice cream cone. There isn’t just one way to eat her pussy that will give her the first orgasm of the night. But there are some definite dos and don’ts for doing a great job.

First, a little about female anatomy. Because you might have spent a lot of time with female anatomy without really thinking about how it all works. And that has to change for you to give her that amazing experience.

You might have thought penetration was the best way to rock her world. But penis-in-vagina really doesn’t do it for a lot of women. In fact, most women need their clit rubbed and licked in order to reach climax.

The parts of the vagina you absolutely need to know about 

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During sex, there are two spots in the vagina that make her lose herself in pleasure. These are her G-spot and her A-spot. The G-spot and the A-spot are both in the front wall of the vagina, However, the A-spot is closer to the vaginal opening. 

Here’s the thing though. It can be very tricky to stimulate these areas during sex. For this reason, many women have trouble climaxing. It’s not for lack of trying. But the correct angle can be hard to find. 

This, my dudes, it why oral sex feels so amazing for women. It’s difficult for her to hit the parts that feel good during intercourse. These pussy eating tips can help activate all the right spots.

Her clit has more than 8000 nerve endings. So every way you touch it can get her moaning. And the only way to play with the clit during intercourse is to bring in fingers or a sex toy… which is why your lips and tongue tend to feel so amazing. 

And don’t forget the anus. There are tons of nerve endings there as well. Give her some quick licks near her ass, hips, and anus, to blow her mid. 

Bottom line: eating pussy is a game changer. The clitoris has FAR more nerve endings than the penis and is a surefire way to plunge her into pleasure. 

Mastering some sexy basics

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So now that you’ve got this game plan to rock her world, let’s focus on technique.

First, act like you like it down there. You have to give her signals that you’re enthused. Girls can be very self-conscious about the way their vulvas look and smell, and if they’re feeling self-conscious, NO WAY can they relax. 

And if they can’t relax, they can’t experience pleasure. 

Let’s say you act hesitant. This could have nothing to do with her, but she won’t see it that way.  She might fear that she smells bad or looks weird. She might have a flashback to her neighbor yelling about how all pussies smell like a fish market. Not exactly a great way to get her in the zone.

Give her verbal feedback, “God, I love your pussy,” or “I love how you taste, baby.” 

And finally, TAKE YOUR TIME!! 

Notice how she responds when you send the message that you have all the time in the world for her pleasure. You love it so much, you could be down here for HOURS. 

And that leads me to the next point. 

Take pressure off orgasm

Orgasms are great, but they’re not why sex feels good. 

If you’re only focused on climax, she’ll wonder why you’re not enjoying yourself…

She’ll feel stressed and not sexy at all. 

Look — the slower you go, the bigger the pay-off. You’re not gonna rock her world by getting her there in five seconds. She needs time to reach peak arousal.

We’ll talk about foreplay in a second. But the bottom line is that the less you make it about the orgasm, and the more you make it about her pleasure, the better your sex life will be. 

Oral sex: the perfect way to warm her up to penetration

Don’t think of oral sex as a replacement for intercourse. It can be, but that isn’t always the case. Going down on her is a fabulous way to get her engines running! 

Remember when I mentioned it can take a woman up to an HOUR to feel ready for orgasm? Well, that same woman might take a half hour to warm up to penetration. 

If your dick won’t last that long, at least you have your mouth. 

Oral sex is the perfect thing to get her super wet and relaxed. This helps her be more open and ready. And this will make intercourse a lot more fun and pleasurable for her, too. 

So you’re convinced that you should eat her out. Now let’s talk about technique.

Here are 7 tips for orgasmic success.

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Maybe you’ve eaten pussy before. Maybe this is your first time. The most important thing is to jump in and give it a try. No matter if your a sexpert or a newb, I’m about to equip you with moves to set the stage for success. 

Remember: your woman is unique. Just because you read something in an article, doesn’t mean it’s how she operates. Havev a conversation. Get to know her. Don’t make sweeping judgments. 

The Art of Foreplay: Don’t Dive for the crotch 

This isn’t a race. 

In fact, she probably wants to take it slow. 

Feel your breathing and get relaxed (If you’re relaxed, she’s more likely to feel relaxed and enjoy herself!) 

Your first focus: foreplay. 

Men, don’t dive immediately for the crotch. Try kissing, fondling her breasts, her stomach, her legs. Kissing her inner thighs can be very arousing. The slower you go, the more anticipation will build as you make your way down there. 

Once you get there, don’t pull off her underwear. Tease her through her panties.

Forplay can create anticipation that piques her arousal and makes her WANT you. 

The idea here: get her so turned-on that she’s practically ripping off her own underwear.

Keep Your Tongue Flat 

woman licking sexually

When she’s uber aroused and begging for more, it’s time to hit the good spots. 

But many dudes make the same mistake: they attack her vagina with their tongue like a dagger. 

Here’s the thing…  your tongue should be very relaxed and hanging outside of your mouth. Kind of think of when you’re sticking your tongue out at the doctor. But you don’t need to open up your mouth so wide. 

You’re lapping up water, so to speak. 

Start with the vulva. While keeping your tongue flat, move it past the vagina to the clit and beyond. You can even try this starting from the anus, as some women find this super stimulating and arousing. Just don’t put all your focus on the clit. A flat tongue creates a wide tongue and you want to hit a wide area.

Hint: Try this technique over her underwear before you rip them off. Many women find the anticipation INSANE. 

Suck Her Gently

Sucking is another technique that will get her hot and bothered. Wait for her reaction. The pressure of the sucking motion can be strong and stimulating. 

Just like with the flat tongue technique, you want to do this everywhere — her anus, her labia, her pubic mound, even her thighs. Don’t put 100% of your focus on her clit. 

Oh and remember the key word here is GENTLY. If you do things too harshly, you’ll make her tense up and recoil instead of curling her toes.

Start off slowly. You can pick up speed as she gets more and more aroused. 

Go Slower Than You Think

man going down on a woman

You can’t wait to have her screaming in pleasure and dragging you back to the bedroom to do it again. But, slow down there partner. 

Go slower than you think. For her, this isn’t about the finish line. This is about letting her live for a while in a soupy, frothy, pleasure-land existence. 

In fact, if you don’t rush the experience, she’ll be get EXTRA wet and aroused for you. She’ll love that you’re spending all this time on her and not rushing the experience. 

Start by kissing and caressing her body. Take your time moving from body part to body part. Don’t forget her ass or her tits. She may find touch in those areas to be super arousing. 

Enjoy the ride, and she will too. 

Hum Her Some Good Vibrations 

Want to try something that will likely have her arching her back in pleasure? That’s a silly question – of course you do. Try humming. You don’t even have to be musical for her to scream out in joy. 

This isn’t about singing a song. It’s all about vibration. And vibration can feel amazing. You might not create the same frequency as her sex toy vibrator. But humming into that area will create a vibration that will feel earth-shattering.  

Pick a song you like. Or even one you don’t like. Or don’t really hum at all.

The trick is to blow vibration through your lips which can send waves through her pussy. It doesn’t matter how you hum. Because once you start humming, she likely won’t be able to pay attention to anything else besides how freaking amazing she feels right now. 

Get Creative

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This is where you get to use your imagination. She’ll never know what’s coming next because you’re full of all sorts of seductive surprises. What could you bring into the bedroom that will really get her wet and excited?

The options are endless. Try blindfolding her. She’ll be so turned on, not knowing where your mouth is going next. As you kiss her tits, her stomach, her inner thigh, she’ll be so tuned into every sensation. 

Or try a butt plug. This sex toy is designed to stimulate the anal opening. That area has so many nerve endings. Couple this with tongue stimulation on her clitoris or vagina. The combined stimulation can be really intense. 

She may just go wild with pleasure. 

The options are endless. Just do what seems fun. Maybe she’ll enjoy being handcuffed. Maybe she’ll like a tickler. Don’t be shy. The right toy can make for an intense, orgasmic experience. 

So now you know all the right moves. But it’s also important to mention some definite don’ts when it comes to pussy eating tips. These are things that will not only cool things off quickly. They can stop her from wanting to give you another chance.

Don’t Go Too Fast & Furious! 

I mentioned this two seconds ago, but I’m back with it again because I need you to HEAR this. 

She can find it difficult to relax while you’re eating her out. And if you just ‘attack her’ full force, she’s not going to relax. She’ll become more tense. And then you’ll never get her going, let alone bring her to orgasm. 

Plus, if you go too hard, it can get REALLY uncomfortable for her. Bottom line: it won’t feel good. And that’s the whole point, isn’t it?

Good Boys Don’t Bite 

man eating cherry

The lips, the mouth, the tongue – these are all winners when it comes to eating her out. 

Just… leave your teeth out of it. 

Her skin down there is super delicate. And any contact with your teeth is not going to be a welcome surprise and will definitely not be a turn-on. In fact, it will likely instantly put her walls up to the point where she won’t want to give you a second chance. 

So whatever you do, keep those teeth in your mouth tucked behind your lips. Make sure they’re tucked away before you get anywhere close to that area. This is one time she doesn’t want to see your pearly whites. 

Now, if you have an extra kinky gal on your hands who likes a little pain? ASK HER FIRST. She might love it, but you don’t want to surprise her with teeth. 

Take her feedback to heart. 

When you are between her legs, you are the student. Who knows her body best? She does. 

You’re so ready to get her wet, excited, and moaning in pleasure. But don’t be so involved with your technique that you forget about her. And remember, she might not always tell you what she likes or doesn’t like. You have to read her body language. 

If she’s not reacting, try something else. If her body’s tense, you need to change direction to help her relax. 

Pick up on the subtle hints… like heavy breathing and moaning to tell you that she’s enjoying herself. 

Other hints … like silence, tenseness… tell you she’s not into it. Change it up. 

Have fun down there. 

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If you’re not a fan of eating pussy, she’ll be able to tell. 

If you’re just going through the motions and impatiently waiting for her to finish, she’s going to see right through you. 

Fun is contagious. And if you’re having a good time, she will take it as permission for her to have a good time too. 

Make Sure She Comes Too 

This article barely scratches the surface of what it means to give great oral sex and give her intense, amazing orgasms.

So if you’re interested in being the sex god that makes her scream, go check out the She Comes Too Masterclass — an entire online course filled with sexy gems on how to be the best she’s ever had. 

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