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What Women REALLY Think About Double Penetration

Double penetration is an INCREDIBLY common pornography search, which might have you thinking that DP is just about two penises going at the same girl at the same time. Guys, double penetration is SO MUCH MORE than that. In fact,

How Men Over 45 Can Win At Sex & Online Dating

If you’re the kind of guy who has given up on himself entirely… Who thinks women are just looking for an ATM machine… Or that a dog is better company than a girlfriend… no judgment! But this blog article is

How drinking helps you last longer in bed

It is a common suggestion: a couple ounces of liquid courage can help you boost sexual stamina.  But is it true? Short answer: sort of. There’s a LOT you need to take into consideration before you start mixing alcohol with

Coronavirus – How to Survive Quarantine with Your Spouse

If you haven’t noticed, the whole world is on lockdown or social-distancing right now (including me) and there’s all sorts of news stories (like this one from the New Yorker, this one, about the spiked divorce rate in China after quarantine, and this one about

The 7 BEST sex positions to last longer in bed

When you always climax too soon, it can get embarrassing, demoralizing, and frustrating.  For her, it can get boring. (Trust me, your girl wants you to last long enough for her to enjoy foreplay and reach her own finish line.) 

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The battle-proven way to have sex with two women at once

Having a threesome with two women can be one of the most exhilarating experiences of your entire life…. but if done wrong, it can be a relationship killer.  When you bring another woman into the bedroom, there are numerous landmines

How to Optimize Your Bedroom So You Have More Sex

We’re all on a quest to have more sex. We stock up on lube and sex toys, make sure we smell nice, and try to be as attractive to the opposite sex as possible.  But there’s one HIGHLY overlooked aspect

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How to Tell if She’s Faking Orgasm

Women are going to be mad at me for writing this article. I can feel it. So YOU, dear reader, should promise me that you will NOT use this information to make women feel bad about themselves. You’re not going

3 Simple Ways to Give Her Intense Orgasms

A recent study shows that up to 70% of women admit to sometimes faking orgasms.  You know what this really means? That 70% of women experience communication breakdowns during sexual activity. I believe this is the leading cause of breakups

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She Probably Won’t Orgasm Unless You Do This

One of the Lannisters from Game of Thrones once said, “there is a tool for every task, and a task for every tool.” I didn’t watch Game of Thrones (**Gasp!**) but I do have an awesome new tool to share

7 Ways to Get a Woman’s Attention

One time I fell in love while standing in the middle of a bustling train terminal. I didn’t even know this guy. I had never seen him before, but I was attracted to him from across the room. What drew

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How to Stop Being Involuntarily Celibate

A friend recently asked me, “If you had one superpower, what would it be?” After thinking about it for a second, I said, “Snapping my fingers and removing sexual shame and fear so people can have uber-pleasurable sex lives!” My

5 Sexy Ways to Incorporate Food in the Bedroom

There’s a bazillion ways of putting food and sex together, and I’m going to teach you all the delicious ways. My husband likes doing that thing you see in the movies — where a woman is wearing a blindfold and

The 10 Most Common Mistakes Men Make in Bed

The two WORST sexual experiences of my life had one very important thing in common, which was the poorly-timed use of biting during foreplay. Don’t get me wrong – a good nibble is rarely a bad thing. Some teeth on