My Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach
It all started when I was in High School.
My parents were, like many parents, uncomfortable talking about sex. They basically told me not to have sex and left it at that.
But, as a sexually curious and horny teenage girl, I started having sex with my boyfriend at age 14.
With a few exceptions, our sex life was great! We had sex in his car, in my parent’s basement, even outside in nature a few times.
Looking back on it now, I can see I was fortunate. We were both virgins (no STIs), I was on birth control (no unplanned pregnancy), and I could almost always reach orgasm (no lack of pleasure).
We experimented with oral sex and anal sex. We tried every position we could think of (limited sometimes by the back seat of his Saturn). We were young and in love and having the time of our lives.
I’m so glad that I had that experience because little did I know, a nightmare was about to enter my life and make me question everything I knew about sex and relationships. My perfect, pleasure-filled bubble was about to be shattered.
Sex is Dirty, Shameful, Wrong
I felt a dark cloud of shame come over me. I felt embarrassed. I felt like Eve after eating the fruit from the tree of knowledge.
Only in this case it wasn’t “knowledge” it was the guilt, shame and fear we have acquired in our culture.
I questioned everything I had experienced. I questioned what my body had felt. Was the joy and pleasure I felt a lie? Was the health teacher telling the truth?
This was the pivotal moment for me. The realization that changed my entire life.
I decided to trust my body and my instincts instead of the teacher.
I decided right then and there to save men and women from shame and guilt associated with sex and sexuality.
I had received a gift.
I had experienced sex for myself, free of the context of shame and embarrassment.
From then on I have devoted my life to sharing my gift with others.
You CAN Have the Sex Life You Crave
Today I help people experience what their body already knows: That sex is BEAUTIFUL, NATURAL, ENJOYABLE
That pleasurable sex is your BIRTHRIGHT.
That a satisfying sex life is available to EVERYONE, no matter what.
If you agree with me and you want MORE out of your sex life, don’t wait a minute longer.