5 Things That Happen When Women Watch Porn

Your wife or girlfriend is watching porn behind your back. On a regular basis. Heck, maybe she is right now as you read this!

So the next time you’re at the gym or playing video games … she’s pulling up her favorite porn site on her laptop and sinking into a pleasurable self-lovin’ sesh. 

According to recent studies, nearly one in three visitors to porn sites are female. 

Thats nearly thirteen MILLION American women who look at porn at least once a month. 

But here’s the thing: more and more research is telling us that when a woman watches porn, her sex life changes

Porn affects a woman’s arousal, her sexual behaviors, and even how often she orgasms. 
Porn even affects what women expect out of men in the bedroom. So dudes… you’ll definitely want to hear this.

After reading this article, you’ll know exactly how porn changes a woman’s sex life, how porn changes what women expect of men, and why women watch porn to begin with.

Why do women watch porn?

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Do women watch porn for the same reasons as men? 

Well…. Yes and no. 

First of all, let me be clear when I say, no two women have the same motivations for watching porn. Different women like different types of porn, and different women watch porn for different reasons:

1. It makes it easier for women to masturbate.

Women love petting the cat just as much as men. According to a study published in 2020, when women watch porn, they have an easier time getting aroused AND its easier for them to reach orgasm while they’re …. “makin’ waffles.” 

And not for nothin’, watching porn makes masturbation more pleasurable. It helps us experience our fantasies in living color instead of relying on our imaginations.

2. Women are simply curious.

Look — watching people have sex is both fascinating and fun. It can be highly educational to see what other people’s bodies do during sex!  In my earlier days, I remember being like “… I didn’t know vaginas looked like that during sex! … … INTERESTING!… I wonder if mine does that.” 

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3. It gives us spicy ideas!

Porn gives us super fun sex ideas. Like that suction-y dildo you didn’t know existed until you saw a woman pleasure herself with it …

4. Porn allows us to live out the fantasies we might not want in real life. 

Porn allows us to live any fantasy safely and with pleasure without having to explore it — and deal with it — in real life.

So those are the four reasons women watch porn. But WHEN women watch porn… what happens?

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5 ways porn changes a woman’s sex life

It’s good to be aware what possible changes porn watching can have on your sex life. Here are a few studied find are specific to women.

1. Women who watch porn have an easier time getting aroused during partnered sex. 

Let’s be honest — have you ever had a hard time getting aroused with your partner, and then you close your eyes… and you think back on that amazing porn video you just can’t get out of your head… and then suddenly you can happily get it on for days? 

Yeah. like that.

2. Watching porn may make women feel BETTER(!) about their bodies.

Especially when women watch more realistic porn… where you see (and I typically hate this word) … NORMAL people with normal bodies… people who don’t look like Ken and Malibu Barbie. 

It’s nice to see people with diverse body types enjoying those unique bodies and being desired. 

It makes us feel unstoppable … and even if we’re unhappy with certain parts of our bodies, this can make us feel like we’re still worthy of pleasure and desire. 

3. Women who frequently masturbate to porn express more frustration and distress when they’re unable to orgasm with their partner. 

Because women that watch porn are used to seeing women orgasming every five seconds. Porn makes it seem like orgasms are on command, around every corner, a dime a dozen.

This can turn into a problem if women start EXPECTING an orgasm every single time they have partnered sex… and especially if they have a hard time achieving as many orgasms as they would like. 

Now, if this sounds like you, you absolutely need to check out my She Comes Too Masterclass, so you can meet any women’s expectations in bed, help her achieve intense orgasms and satisfying sex every single time.

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4. Women who watch porn DO end up having more orgasms. 

Porn can be an educational tool, showing women how to reach more frequent orgasms with or without a partner. 

Woman having orgasm

5. Porn can make women more open minded about their own sexuality. 

It might inspire them to try new things. 

It goes both ways though — more open minded women are more likely to watch porn in the first place. But porn and also make women more open minded about the possibilities at their fingertips. 

Women might feel less shameful about their own sexual preferences if they see OTHER women, in porn, enjoying the same things. 

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